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July 31, 2012
by janette
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the Haitian Adventure Part 3 – the end…or is it just the beginning?

Thursday and Friday we were back in Grand Goave, ready to take on some more projects. But first, we took a hike up the mountain to see the new “Be Like Brit” orphanage scheduled to open on the 2nd anniversary of the earthquake on January 12, 2013. I’m not sure I can do her story justice, so please,please check out www.belikebrit.org and watch the videos posted on the right hand side. It is a pretty amazing story…and looks like it will be one pretty amazing orphanage as well. It’s absolutely beautiful.

They were getting ready to pour the concrete ceiling in these pictures. We were told that once poured, they would leave the ceiling jacks in place for 21 days to let the concrete cure. In the United States, it takes 28 days, but because of the heat of the Haitian sun, it would take a few less in Haiti.

This is also the day we went to the new mountaintop property to help lay out the foundation for a new building. Hands and Feet has hopes that this will be a facility for the older kids to gain a skill or trade before they are turned out into Haitian society. They are really doing some fantastic things with these kids – not only taking care of their current needs…but also helping them plan for a future with the savings accounts they set up for them, and now planning to help them learn a trade to support themselves once they leave. Again – the vision is amazing.

(laying out the foundation with string)

(clearing the path for the string)

(and Beth…pretty proud of herself after she moved this massive rock)

When we came down from the mountain, we did spend some quality time with the kids. Lauren (the art intern) had been wanting to do this string art with the kids…a map of Haiti that the kids would paint, then use nails to outline the map, and finally wrap string around those nails.

I was really impressed at how much they all got into it. It was a good afternoon…spent helping them finish their crafts. She is doing some amazing things with them this summer. I was just reading her Facebook posts the other day…she’s got them making jewelry, making journals, painting on old t-shirt canvases, and making face molds. (yet to be determined what those are being used for). The intention…not only to give them a creative outlet and fun summer activities, but also to be able to sell something to the mission groups that come that these kids have made.

Hands and Feet is doing some wonderful things for these kids. I mentioned the mountaintop site before, and how they’re hoping to use it as a skill building facility for their older kids, but they’re also doing things at all of the sites to help promote responsibility and also teach them budgeting and help them keep learning, even in the summer.

One example at Grand Goave was the store. For each time the kids help with something (dishes, cleaning their rooms, etc) they are rewarded with points. Once every couple of weeks, Angie will take things from the donations the mission groups bring with them (flashlights, water shoes, sunglasses, costume jewelry, candy, toys, etc) and assign them point values. The kids then have the opportunity to “buy” things with their points, or they can save them for a bigger, more “expensive” item. What I thought was great was that she would tell them how many points they had available, and they would then need to figure out what they wanted and then determine how many points they had left, and if they could purchase more or if they needed to wait until they had earned more points first. So, it had not only a reward aspect, but a teaching one as well.

It was with sad hearts that we had to pack up and leave on Saturday morning. Sad hearts only because the time spent there went so quickly, and I knew it would most certainly be an adjustment coming home again to the normalcy of daily life here.

We couldn’t leave without a few final photos though.

(me Emmanuel and Egenn)

(me and Chadieu)

(and Odlin and myself…this little guy and I had quite the time playing “Red Hands” one night…those kids are all impressively good at it, and they slap hard too! There are a few I wouldn’t play with after the first time i got caught by one of their hits…like Chadieu in the picture above this one! I’m pretty sure Odlin took it easy on me…which I appreciated, and so did my hands!)

(one final photo of our group before leaving the site in Grand Goave and heading on another open air ride to Port Au Prince. I did get smart on the ride back…I wore a bandana to cover my head and ended up with hair that felt much less like straw than the trip in, and probably saved myself from a head-sunburn as well.)

Some of my favorite things about Haiti…and those things that I miss terribly, even after being home for a month.

The laid back atmosphere. Everything is done on Haitian time…meaning they may tell you you’re going to do something at noon…but it could be 1 or 1:30 before you get around to it. I only wish my schedule could be like that here sometimes…if I was being overly productive at home…i could push back going to work until I got around to it. Somehow, I don’t think that would go over too well…maybe if I explained to Beth that I was on Haitian time, she’d let it go??

Haitian pancakes (which were actually a mix from Walmart.  I only wish I knew what they did to them to make them so amazing…I actually still have dreams about those pancakes),

Open air truck riding (while it made us gritty and our hair resemble straw, there is really nothing like experiencing a country through sight AND smell),

The openness and acceptance of the kids we met. They meet new groups of people every week and open themselves up to them and invite them into their world. It’s a beautiful thing.

I even came to appreciate the hot. You wake up and get out of bed and would be sweating already. I threw the “diet” plan out for the week, and ate whatever I wanted, and by sweating everything off, I managed to only gain a fraction of a pound, which came right back off plus some by the next weigh in.

The title of this post — the end…or is it just the beginning — I think it’s the latter. I can say with certainty that this trip will not be my last to Haiti. I loved every minute of being there. Every minute – whether donning my swimsuit to play in the ocean, or sweating my behind off painting the rack on the deuce…every minute was a blessing to me. I just hope that somewhere along the line, when I was being blessed in so many ways, I made someone’s day a little brighter by being there.

July 26, 2012
by janette
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The Haitian Adventure part 2

So, it’s been awhile since part one. I promise I’ve been working on it…I just put all my blog edited pictures on the computer at work – and since when I’m at work, they like me to well…work, it’s been difficult to get it done. However, I have persevered and here is entry 2 on our trip to Haiti.

I was up to Wednesday last I left off…

Quite honestly, Wednesday was the day I’d been waiting for since we arrived on Saturday evening and was told there would be a chance we would get to go on a road trip over the mountains to Jacmel, the location of Hands and Feet’s first orphanage. It isn’t that I wasn’t enjoying where I was or excited to be there, but Jacmel was the location that I had heard so much about. Not only the location, but the kids as well. Every year when Beth (friend and co-worker at the public library) comes back from Haiti, we would get to hear great stories about the kids there and get to know them and their little personalities vicariously through her. About two years ago when she came back, she asked many of us if we would consider being a prayer sponsor for one of the kids there. She paired my family with Stephane (pronounced Stefan)…a little boy who at the time was 3, and had THE BEST smile…and gave great hugs. He reminded her of my little Ev…in that he was a hugger…so, she paired us up.

Over the last couple of years, our family has prayed for this little guy before every meal we sit down to. The prayer they say is one they came up with on their own when I asked them what we should say. It goes something like this “Thank you God for Stephane, and help Stephane feel well, and be safe, and not be shy, and make new friends, Amen.” It warms my heart…every time. The kids also draw pictures for him occasionally, and make birthday cards which we have Beth scan and send by email to him in Haiti. Recently, we decided to sponsor him financially as well.

So, this is the day I would get to meet the little guy that our family has come to love from so many miles away.

We started out our day at the local market. The market is open on Wednesdays and Saturdays in Grand Goave, and it is an experience. I’m convinced you can find just about anything you’d like at the market…shampoo and other toiletries, clothing, shoes, raw fish, produce, grains, coffee…you name it, it is probably there somewhere.

After we experienced the market, we got into two different vehicles and drove the 2ish hour drive to Jacmel, up and over the mountains. We had been asked if anyone gets carsick, and were told that if we did, we more than likely would on this fast, tight turning trip through the mountains. I don’t think anyone did actually get ill, except for the director’s little girl, but she didn’t even get all that upset about it. I know that when my kids throw up, it’s hard to get them calmed down afterwards.

We arrived in Jacmel around 11:30, and were only able to stay for a short while…but what a sight! Isn’t is beautiful?

It was really nice to have a future vision for the site in Grand Goave. Affirming to see where they’re currently at and where they’re headed. At the end of the week, we would get to go to Hands and Feet’s new mountaintop property and help map out the foundation for their third site, bringing the whole experience full circle.

But for now, back to Jacmel…we took a tour of the property, and gathered many kids along the way. Stephane was there waiting with a hug when we found him! What a treat to get to meet him. So many people sponsor kids in different countries that they’ll never get to meet. Their only interaction is the letters and pictures they send back and forth. I guess knowing people that had met Stephane helped me get to meet him, and planning a trip to his country certainly didn’t hurt, but i was still beyond thrilled to pick this little boy up and give him a great big hug and see his smile in person.

(me meeting Stephane)

After spending some time hanging out with the kids, it was time to say goodbye, and we continued on and were taken out to lunch at a nice hotel in Jacmel. We pre-ordered our food the day before – and our choices were between fish; goat; chicken; a ham and cheese sandwich; and a ham, chicken, cheese, and egg sandwich. We all thought the last one sounded very interesting…but surprisingly no one chose that option. I chose the chicken…it was fantastic!  Here is a picture of my lunch. It came with french fries, fried plantains, some cabbage and carrots, and some pikliz – pictured up top center of the plate. (As a description- thank you google -Pikliz is a combination of pickled shredded cabbage, carrot, onions, shallots and habanero peppers. Some people refer to this as Haitian coleslaw with a lot of kick. Normally pikliz is eaten with Griot (Fried pork shoulders), Tassot (Fried beef strips), fried plantain or any fried root. It’s really spicy and goes great with fresh fried dishes.)

But, while we were waiting for it to be delivered to our table, we ventured out to check out the scenery from the hotel. Wow! What a view.

What a stark contrast to conditions we had been seeing. It was interesting to me that you could be driving along a street filled with temporary homes made from plywood and Samartian’s Purse tarps, turn down what looked like a dirt alley, and end up at a nice hotel. When you’ve become accustomed to seeing some of the poorest living conditions, finding somewhere you would actually go to vacation was unexpected, but beautiful.

Stay tuned for Adventure part 3 – the finale. Coming soon!

July 7, 2012
by janette
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The Haitian adventure

I have so much to blog about…like stuff from the beginning of May…but all I want to blog about is the trip to Haiti we just returned from. It’s not that the other stuff isn’t important….it’s just that Haiti is on my mind.

First of all, all I can say is what an incredible experience.

We stepped off the plane into the Haitian hot. Truly, it wasn’t that hot…I was expecting worse…and would see some of that hot toward the middle of the week we spent there.

We were picked up in an Old Army Truck and rode in open air haitian style through Port au Prince.

It could have easily been overwhelming to travel through the streets of Port au Prince for those that hadn’t been there, or to any third world country, before. The conditions we saw there were very similar to those that I saw when I traveled to Honduras in 1999 following Hurricane Mitch. Tent cities, lots of people, lots of cars, and yes, a lot of garbage too.

The organization we went through for this trip is called the Hands and Feet Project.

You can check out more about the organization and their misssion at www.handsandfeetproject.org or by reading the book “Hands & Feet” by Audio Adrenaline

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They are a pretty amazing organization. And they are doing some pretty amazing things for the children they have living there.

I was first touched by their sponsorship program…you can choose to sponsor a child from either of their locations, and once that child becomes fully sponsored (10 sponsors at $30 a piece), the cost of raising them at the orphanage is covered, as well as a savings account started for that child so that once they reach the age where they age out of the orphanage, they’ll have money already set aside to start their lives on their own in Haiti. It’s called the Dream Fund. Powerful word…dream.

And then I was touched by their plans to help the kids prosper more than just providing them a home, and a savings account. They’re also working on building a third location – atop a mountain no less, to help teach these kids a trade or skill once they get a little older to turn them out as a productive member into society.

We pulled in to Hands and Feet in Grand Goave…and were greeted with this message on the way in.

James 1:27

New International Version (NIV)

27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

We arrived on Saturday, June 16 around 5:30 and spent the evening getting acquainted with the staff in Grand Goave and had a brief orientation of what our week would look like,  and then we were free to check out the place and spend some time with the kids there.

Sunday morning we spent at church. We walked about a mile to the Mission of Hope Church for their morning service. Even though the service was in Haitian Creole…there were still familiar tunes we could pick out from the praise songs, and with the help of a couple translators sitting among us, we got the general message of that morning’s service. Sundays are a day to rest or just hang out and so after we walked back to Hands and Feet, we all got ready to go to the beach with the kids. We all piled onto the back of the army truck…when I say all, I mean the 10 of us, the 30 kids, and some of the Haitian staff…and drove to the Mission of Hope beach house (where missionaries serving with the Mission of Hope stay while in Haiti). We swam or waded in the ocean with the kids, and then sat down to a wonderful lunch prepared by the staff at Mission of Hope. It was a very relaxing, peaceful afternoon.

Most of us spent the rest of Sunday afternoon avoiding the rain by napping or reading in the missionary housing at Hands and Feet before walking to church in the rain for their English service. This service was less attended than the morning service, but it was great to be able to worship with people in a language we understood, singing songs we knew…with a few lines of Haitian Creole mixed in.

The walk back from church that evening was frightening. It had stopped raining, but was pitch black. Having no street lights, so we found ourselves walking along the side of the road only being able to see our path when a car drove by. And you know, if you’ve ever been there, you don’t really want to be anywhere near the road when cars are driving by…they go very fast and very close to each other. It also isn’t a secret that I’m not a fan of the dark, and I was very thankful to have kids from Hands and Feet on either side of me, holding my hands to guide me back to the orphanage. We made it safely back, and I can just imagine the look of relief on my face we finally turned off the road.

Monday morning brought the start of the work portion of our trip.

Originally, when I signed up for this trip, I wasn’t honestly sure of what we would be doing once we arrived in Haiti…I knew that we would be helping the directors of the Grand Goave site with whatever they needed help with. They had a list of projects for us, ranging from light construction to painting to sewing to helping with kids crafts. It was nice to be able to find something on the list for everyone’s specific talents.

Our group had a great balance…we had some that were skilled at construction, so as they constructed, we painted, and we had some that were more interested in hanging out with the kids and playing soccer or cards or even the guitar with them. The task I chose to take on first was sorting through the donations our group had brought with us for the orphanage. Our group brought 9 full sized suitcases with us packed full of things to donate. We brought everything from shoes to clothes, to over the counter medication, to a nebulizer and some albuterol, to cake and pancake mixes.

After we finished the task of sorting, inventorying, and organizing the donations into their supply closet, called “the depot”, I settled into a nice sanding and painting routine for the rest of the day. I’m not going to lie, I did about whatever job I could that allowed me to be in the shade. I took great pride in the fact that on the 2 and a half hour drive from the airport to our destination, my skin did not turn pink…at all, and I had every intention of keeping it that way. What a miserable trip it could have been had I sunburned on the first day! It was nice to have intermittent rain showers throughout the first couple of days, keeping the temperatures down into the 80′s. The week before it had topped out close to 100 degrees daily.

We had noticed on the way to the beach that first day with the kids, the rack on “the deuce” (our army truck), was rusting and left a beautiful rust colored tint to our hands, and so tackling that project was high on our list, knowing we’d be riding in this vehicle many more times during our week-long stay.

A few of the other projects taken on throughout the next few days…painting, constructing windows, shelves, sewing curtains…

To be continued…with Wednesday, a day of rest…

June 10, 2012
by janette
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free comic book day!!!

The first Saturday of May every year is Free comic book day. 1) How cool is that? and 2) I had seen it advertised that The Core in Cedar Falls was going to have the original batmobile at their store that day, and thought since Evan has an obsession a love of superheroes, it would probably be something he would like.

We had no idea that there would be superheroes there too…Can you just tell by that little face that he is thrilled? Oh My Goodness. I only wish I could have seen it in person…but what a cool thing for Dad to take them to while I was at work on a Saturday!

And then…they spotted Captain America. My son was in heaven. Captain America is his absolute favorite.

In fact, one morning, he was watching an Avengers cartoon when i walked into the living room. I happened to notice that Captain America was on the tv. I said “hey look, it’s Captain America.” He replies “Nuh Uh…I’m Captain America.” Obsess much?

He even got to hold his shield. Heaven…um…yeah. He asks to see this picture all the time.

And awesome face painting too.

Thrilled doesn’t even begin to describe it. It was the best day of this kid’s little life.

June 5, 2012
by janette
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a fun may day tradition

For May Day this year, we decided to put together May baskets for a few of our neighbors…

The kids loved helping!

Especially Ev…he wanted to pack it all in. I feel kind-of sorry for the person who got this one…hope there was some whole popcorn pieces left in there by the time he was done.

Making the trek up the hill…

and my favorite…running back down the hill. You should have seen their faces when they burst through the back door. They were so excited!

And then they got to do it to two more houses!